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Ultimate Guide to Difficult
Conversations
1. Introduction 2. When you don’t know the answer 3. When you have to transfer a customer to someone else 4. When a customer requests a feature or product 5. When a customer asks you for a favor that you cannot do 6. When there’s something wrong with the delivered product 7. When you close the conversation 8. When a customer is angry 9. When a customer is unwilling to pay 10. When a crisis occurs 11. When you have a frequently complaining customer 12. When customers complain on social media 13. When you have legal issues 14. When you have to deliver bad news 15. When you have an abusive customer 16. When customers cross boundaries 17. When the customer speaks a different language 18. When a customer asks a vague question 19. When customers ask when something is going to be available 20. When you or your fellow agents made a mistake 21. When a customer wants to speak with a manager 22. When you can’t resolve the issue right away 23. When you need to let a customer know that it was their mistake 24. When a customer reaches you by mistake 25. When a customer asks how your product is different from others 26. When a customer is worried about how secure your service is 27. When a customer says that they forgot their password 28. When you want to point a customer to your documentation 29. When a customer violated your terms of service 30. When a customer is not tech-savvy 31. When a customer is right, but your policy is not 32. When a customer sounds like a bigot 33. You’ve got this!
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When you have to deliver bad news

Researchers at UC-Riverside did a study on whether people preferred to receive and deliver bad news first. While most people were more likely to respond favorably when bad news was delivered first, and good news delivered after; most people wanted to perform the latter. That is: more people (70%, according to the study) wanted to say the good thing first, and then deliver the bad news later.

When you have to deliver bad news

In customer support, we must overcome our instincts, and deliver the bad news at the start in order to get the hopefully best response from our customers.

So, take for example that someone is asking for something that you know is never going to be built into your product. That’s rough news to share and is a little bit more difficult than the typical feature request response. A great way to do this, following the bad-news-before-good-news formula is:

Hi there,

Thanks very much for emailing about this — that’s a great question. I could certainly see how this might be useful for you, but this isn’t something that we have planned on our product roadmap. I know that’s probably hard to hear, but luckily I do have a workaround I can recommend. Check out [documentation] and you can read a little bit more about how it works.

I hope that helps, but please let me know if I might have missed the mark or you have any other questions.

As you can see, it follows a similar format to the feature request template but does have some slight tweaking to adjust for introducing your workaround. If there isn’t documentation for the workaround that you are telling your customer about, replace that sentence with information about how to do the workaround that you are recommending — maybe even make a saved reply for it if it’s something that you do frequently!

When you write the response in this way, instead of leading with the positive and ending with the negative, your positive workaround will be the last thing in the customer’s memory.