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Ultimate Guide to Difficult
Conversations
1. Introduction 2. When you don’t know the answer 3. When you have to transfer a customer to someone else 4. When a customer requests a feature or product 5. When a customer asks you for a favor that you cannot do 6. When there’s something wrong with the delivered product 7. When you close the conversation 8. When a customer is angry 9. When a customer is unwilling to pay 10. When a crisis occurs 11. When you have a frequently complaining customer 12. When customers complain on social media 13. When you have legal issues 14. When you have to deliver bad news 15. When you have an abusive customer 16. When customers cross boundaries 17. When the customer speaks a different language 18. When a customer asks a vague question 19. When customers ask when something is going to be available 20. When you or your fellow agents made a mistake 21. When a customer wants to speak with a manager 22. When you can’t resolve the issue right away 23. When you need to let a customer know that it was their mistake 24. When a customer reaches you by mistake 25. When a customer asks how your product is different from others 26. When a customer is worried about how secure your service is 27. When a customer says that they forgot their password 28. When you want to point a customer to your documentation 29. When a customer violated your terms of service 30. When a customer is not tech-savvy 31. When a customer is right, but your policy is not 32. When a customer sounds like a bigot 33. You’ve got this!
21.

When a customer wants
to speak with a manager

Sometimes a customer will ask to speak to a manager right from the get-go but sometimes, after a pretty extensive back and forth with you, they’ll ask to be escalated. Speaking to a manager helps people feel as though they’ve actually been heard, instead of just getting lost in the sea of customer feedback. Similarly, people that ask to speak to “higher ups” usually are doing so because they care. If they didn’t care, they wouldn’t be spending even more of their time to speak to a manager and vent their frustrations; they would just be walking out.

So, when a customer asks to talk to a manager, we recommend that you either directly let them talk to your manager, if you have a policy in place already, follow that. Otherwise:

  1. Notify your manager that you have a customer that wants to talk to them and offer context around what you’ve already offered to or talked to the customer about.
  2. Ask your manager how they would like to handle it, either by them taking over, them advising you on a ticket, passing it to another employee (and presenting it as escalation to the customer), or telling the customer that no manager is available.
  3. Respond to the customer.

If you’re letting them know that you are escalating to someone else, whether that be an actual manager or just your colleague, here’s a great template to use:

Hey there,

Thanks for expressing your thoughts here. I can see how that would be frustrating for you and you’d want to get a second opinion from someone other than me. I’m going to send your ticket along to [name], who would love to hear a little bit more about what’s been going on and how they can help.

Just so you know, I have provided some context and explanation to [name] so that they have a bit of an understanding before speaking with you. If you would like to provide additional insights that you think I might have missed, please do.

Thanks!

If you are moving forward by telling the customer that you do not currently have a manager available, the best tactic here would be to do something similar that you would when sharing bad news:

Hi,

Thanks very much for following up about this and sharing your perspective here. I can see how that would be frustrating for you and you’d want to get a second opinion from someone other than me. Right now, though, I don’t have a manager available, so we will have to keep working through this together.

So, given that, I was just wanted to reiterate what I perceive the issues to be: [list out the issues as you see them, and your proposed solutions]. Does that all sound right or is there something that I’m missing? I want to make sure that we are on the same page moving forward, because I know this has been frustrating for you.

Thanks!